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Don’t be the one who makes him feel like he has to justify himself before he even knocks on the door.***************************************** Stephen Hussey helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships.It sucks the fun and mystery away and makes a man feel like he is more being sized up for a relationship than just getting to know and connect with you.Bottom line: We cannot have fun dating if we’re always afraid of being gut-punched by love.” approach…) Now, we’ve seen how writing “no hookups” on your profile can be ineffective in filtering out players, but there’s also another reason you should avoid such a strategy…Whenever I see the phrase: “Swipe left if you just want a hookup!
Sure, there may be a few “player types” who are scared off by such a line, but there are also a fair amount of guys who are just as spurred on by such a challenge (or who at least ignore it entirely). ” isn’t some kind of lethal kryptonite that destroys every man who just wants a hookup.
The only REAL effective filter is judging guys based on their actions and looking for little signs in actual conversation.
For example: I suspect in some ways, just writing “No hookups! It’s wanting to screen out the worst guys without doing the actual work of screening them through the methods above.
Not because I believe that dating sites are only useful to facilitate quick sex and no-strings-attached physical encounters.
Quite the opposite: I’ve known plenty of friends who have used sites like Tinder or Bumble and ended up finding dates that eventually turned into relationships and (and in one case even an engagement).